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Things have been difficult, but I am back!

An angry update against the NHS 😉

I first went to see a GP about my seizures last summer.

I saw an awful old witch of a Dr, who spent the 10min appt glaring at the scars from decade-old self harm on my arm, saying my seizures just looked like I was watching TV, & asking repeatedly about my mental health.

We later found that on the neurology referral this Dr had already said I was having “psychogenic seizures” (that is, triggered by emotion, stress, mental illness – we’d told her my emotions didn’t affect my seizures, of course). She also mentioned in the referral that I had self harm scars in full view (it was summer, I was wearing a t-shirt due to the heat!!), & referred to my seizures as “funny turns”.

Since then, when discussing my seizures with *every* GP, it was a battle to remind them my seizures weren’t diagnosed as ‘psychogenic’. I had one GP tell me numerous times “psychogenic seizures aren’t voluntary, it’s a fight or flight response”, “you can’t help it, you’re not doing it on purpose”, & she wanted to refer me to a psychologist to help me overcome “past trauma” that was triggering these ‘episodes’.

I wanted to scream!

STOP INSISTING THEY’RE PSYCHOGENIC SEIZURES, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU LITERALLY JUST ADMITTED YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT MH. STFU!

My neurologist was the only one who was respectful. She wasn’t happy at all with how long I’d had to wait, that I’d been left alone like this, & that the GPs had jumped to psychogenic seizures.

In the year-long wait it took to get an EEG, I discovered that I had POTS. That is, Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome.

And hey, what do you know, there’s an entire bracket of non epileptic seizures that was overlooked simply because I have bipolar disorder!! Physiological non epileptic seizures, triggered by conditions that cause physical changes – usually blood pressure, oxygen to the brain, or blood sugar…OH HELLO POTS!!

(this is my hr when I stand up)

After being told, repeatedly, that my seizures were ‘all in my head’, & that my mh is the cause, it turns out they’re triggered by a physical condition. And once again I had to discover that myself, because the NHS missed it completely. They were too busy blaming my bipolar disorder for everything 🙄

All the symptoms I’d been to the Dr’s about (heart palpitations & dizziness first, in 2010), I was told were caused by my mental illness. I’ve been getting sicker & sicker, and nobody would listen or take me seriously…I have a mental illness, obviously that means I’m immune to physical conditions?!

This way of thinking is absolutely not okay!!!

I shouldn’t HAVE to research & diagnose all my fucking conditions. I shouldn’t have to find ways to prove them to Dr’s at appts…Dr’s who then become so worried, because my HR is so high when I’m just sat in a chair, that they push me for an emergency ECG in case my life is in danger!!

We can’t keep blaming any and all symptoms on MH, simply because the person has a diagnosed mental health condition/s. I’ve been left totally alone with zero support for my seizures (dozens every single day) for over a year. My life crumbled to nothing. I’ve had falls, black eyes, bruises, dislocated fingers in falls…and it was blamed on my MH, it was blamed on me!

Now I know I have Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome, my life has actually improved. I know why my seizures happen, & although I can’t prevent them, I’m able to go out and enjoy more because I have a wheelchair now. For the first time in years I can be around light, I can go to museums, I can eat out. The wheelchair keeps my heart rate lower than if I was standing/walking, it allows me to rest when needed, & if I have a seizure because my HR gets too high, I can’t fall. It’s AMAZING, and it all got missed.

For a year I couldn’t go out, socialise, go shopping. I haven’t been able to go to the cinema since 2015. I was living in darkness, because we thought it was the light triggering my seizures – think about it, when you’re around lights (sunlight through trees, fluorescent lights, flashing lights), you’re outside, which means you’re standing & walking. Which meant I was having seizures. I’m also more photosensitive due to my POTS, so we weren’t that far off the mark.

For over a year I didn’t go anywhere, I sat in the dark…and I was left like that! Because the NHS jumped immediately to psychogenic seizures, because I have a mh condition. I missed out on a year of my life!

Yes, I am pissed off. No, this isn’t okay.

Thank god me and Lyle are strong, are resilient, & have found a way to make life liveable!

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Still waiting

Not much to report, things are the same.

I still don’t have my MRI results. It was almost 4 weeks ago now 🙄

When we phoned PIP on the 6th week (originally we were told we’d have an updated decision in 3), the person we spoke to said “what I’d advise you do is call again at the end of March if you haven’t heard anything”…😱😱😱 That would be twelve weeks!!!! 😡 So I think we’re going to phone them weekly just to try to annoy them into acting faster 🙄

And I haven’t heard about an appt for my EEG yet, despite the two referrals my neurologist sent 🙄

So.

I continue to have way too many seizures everyday, alongside battling chronic pain and bipolar disorder. I’ve been hiding inside, either not going out at all, or going out for 15-30 minute walks to enjoy the snow🙂

Because I haven’t really been going out, my seizures have been sitting at an average of 15 a day, but a few days back I had my lowest seizure day in about 10 months: 8 seizures in an entire day 😃

And that’s pretty much where we’re at.

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12+ months to 2 days

Someone in the US got in touch with me yesterday. A few days ago they had their first seizure, ever, and were looking for support & advice.

Within two days of her first seizure she’d had a CT scan and an EEG. She was diagnosed with complex partial seizures (the same type they think I have) and will be starting meds.

All this within two days of her first seizure!

In contrast, next month will mark a year since my first appt with a GP about seizures. I was treated disgustingly, had to fight to get on the waiting list for a neurologist, and was told it would be a 12+ month wait.

I ended up in A&E due to seizures last October, which was actually kind of a good thing as it expedited my neurology appt, & I saw her 1.5 months later. I had my MRI 3 weeks ago, and am waiting for an EEG (my neuro’s sent off 2 referrals, but the local hospital isn’t acting on them).

The reason I’m posting this is because I’m so sick of abled people not understanding what a hideous monster the NHS is, and how disgusting it is. This person had two seizures total, I’m having over 300 a month and have had no support or treatment yet.

Whenever I try explain my hatred for the NHS, ableds ALWAYS bring up ‘yeah but the NHS is free and you have to pay loads in the US, so it is better’…my dad is TERRIBLE for this.

Firstly, you can say that because you don’t have a condition that puts your life in danger every single day, that you’re not being listened to or given treatment for.

And secondly – just because I complain about the NHS doesn’t mean I want rid, or would rather pay for healthcare. That’s not the only two options there are (shit free healthcare or awesome healthcare you pay loads for). How about an NHS that gets more funding, where treatment is faster and Dr’s care + are educated? Where instead of waiting 12+ months, everything was sorted in 4-6?

That shouldn’t be too much to ask for.

I know quite a few spoonies in Canada. One has suspected simple partial seizures, and is setting a neuro, having an EEG & MRI within 2 months of their 1st appt. Their healthcare is free and so very much better than ours.

It’s not an either-or, it’s a ‘the NHS needs improving because this isn’t okay’…and frankly, if you think it is good enough as it is, because you don’t have a disability, you’re just ignorant & ableist.

I am so SO tired of living with so many seizures. I’m so desperate for help from the NHS, yet I just keep getting treated like shit.

And when people try argue that UK spoonies have it good with the NHS…I just can’t.

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OMG, I have an appt!!!

4 days ago we had the telephone appt with my GP.

It lasted less than 4 minutes & basically consisted of her being confused and asking my partner if “things had got worse” (she couldn’t understand why I’d been sent to A&E or why she’d been told I needed an expedited neurology appt. When she saw me in person a few months back she said I couldn’t be having seizures as I wasn’t ‘dropping to the floor’, and during a video of me having a seizure that we showed her she said “Well what am I supposed to be looking at here? It just looks like you’re watching television” 😑)

Anyway, because we’d provided evidence from the hospital that they wanted her to try speed up my appt, she said she’d phone the hospital and try.

Lo and behold, today I got a letter through the door and early next month I have an appt with a neurologist 😃

I actually can’t believe it!! I’m so nervous about it though haha.

Does anybody have any advice for phoning the hospital to ask if they can provide a room with dimmer lighting for me…? If I have to sit in a room with fluorescent lighting I’ll end up having back to back seizures, and be unable to talk, think, feel sick, confused etc…any advice appreciated!

My happy face 😉

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A really bad day for seizures…

Bleh.

My partner phoned our GP surgery today, because A&E informed us in the complaint that they would electronically send my GP a message telling her to expedite my neurology appt. We hadn’t heard anything, so he called to ask what was happening.

First the receptionist refused to talk to my partner about it, even though TWICE we’ve taken in a signed form stating he can speak on my behalf, and I was actively seizing at the time so couldn’t even speak!!!

Anyway, when we finally got around that she said that there was no message on the system from the ED, and so of course my GP hadn’t tried to speed up my wait for the neurologist…*sigh* ffs, come on 😡

She totally didn’t believe what we were telling her about the ED saying they’d sent a letter, despite my partner saying “I’ve literally got the letter right in front of me!” She kept asking for the date, what it was for, who it was from etc *rolls eyes*

Finally she said we could have a telephone appt with my bloody awful GP tomorrow, ugh…my partner can do all the talking for that, I want nothing to do with her 😥

Also I had my longest seizure ever recorded today, in the midst of a cluster.

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We kinda-not-really won!

If anybody remembers my disastrous negligent A&E visit (that was NOT my fault, I DID NOT want to go!!) , we got the result of the complaint that my mum was handling through a few days ago.

Now bearing in mind PALS isn’t there to help the patient at all but is there to cover the NHS’ arse, we got a good result 🙂

I now have it on paper that medical professionals have confirmed I have seizures, that they witnessed them, AND that my seizures are nothing to do with my bipolar! Two of my biggest issues with their treatment was that a) they said I had no seizures since arriving at the hospital & no staff witnessed any seizures, and they said that was the reason they released me without treatment; and b) they told my mum that my ‘episodes’ (seizures) were most likely caused by my bipolar disorder.

So whilst they didn’t take any notice of our complaint, I at least have medical evidence of seizures now, and they changed what they were saying in my favour 😂

I also got this in regards to the awful Dr that discharged me (the bit above point 11):

Kinda missing the point there – my issue wasnt AT ALL that he asked about PIP. It was that he then said in a derogatory fashion that I was ‘too young’ to be on PIP and should be ‘getting out in the world’. I made that extremely clear and you just decided not listen!

Everything to do with the NHS is gross….

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Complaint & tattoos

PALS have said that they can’t see a referral to a neurologist on my file…which is very odd 😑

The GP sent off the referral 2-3 months ago, so…?

 My partner phoned our GP surgery this morning to ask if there was a referral on the system, but they wouldn’t talk to him…which is just UGH, because when I filled in the registration forms at the surgery, I wrote at every suitable bit that he should be added on the system, I gave consent for him to talk on my behalf, AND I checked with the GP too!!

So now we have to go into the surgery today to ask about the referral, and I’ve written a note that says ” I [name] once again give consent for my partner and carer [name] to talk both on the phone, and to Doctors, on my behalf”. I even included my old and current name and signature, because I’m changing my name on the system today too. 

It’s my birthday in a week and I’m getting two tattoos for it woop woop!

I’m so insanely excited, I haven’t been able to get any new ink in years, because of seizures and what not. I’ve planned these two tiny tattoos so well too haha 🙂

My appt is on Friday, the guy doing them is lovely and I had two of my others done with him. He doesn’t take bookings over the phone anymore as he takes a deposit due to idiots not turning up, so at first we thought we were gonna have to go elsewhere (bit too much to have to travel in to book them, then again for the tattoos). But my partner called him back to ask how long his waiting list was, and when he found out I was disabled he was so lovely and booked us in there and then, no deposit 😃

I also got some new CBD oil to try, and it arrived today. I’m so desperate for relief atm, and the NHS isn’t taking me seriously, so I’m trying a different CBD company in case it helps more. CBD Brothers is supposed to be one of the best in the UK, so fingers crossed!